Frederike

Course

Tantric massage for women and men

With loving touches I invite you to completely sink into your body and to receive the massage from your heart in full surrender.
My tantric massages are tailored to what you need, intuitively and with the necessary knowledge.

I am inspired by what I see happening with you, by the music and the different tantric massage styles that I master.
These sessions are like a dance in which you are taken along in a loving, energetic and at the same time relaxing way. This dance becomes a part of you because it is absorbed by your body cells and can still vibrate for days after. It makes you more relaxed, more energetic, more flowing, more sensitive and sensitive, more loving.

A yoni/lingham massage can be part of the session. We are not pursuing a goal here. You are invited to learn to let go of your desire, leaving your mind free and open and allowing you to fully enjoy what is ahead. In that way it allows you to go into the experience, meet your whole body, increase your sensitivity and make every cell vibrate.
Injuries can surface or you can be touched by the softness you receive. By relaxing in this, this session can be a healing experience for you.

Course:

I work on a futon and if you wish I will be present naked from person to person.

I am the giver and you are the receiver. This is a clear agreement that creates a bed of safety and trust for you and for me.

You will be warmly welcomed with a chat beforehand. Then we get ready for the session. This starts with expressing your desires and limits, followed by a preparation and a ritual through which I first bring you in contact with yourself, your body with a meditation.

I would like to get to know you in advance by means of a telephone contact. During this conversation you are welcome with your questions, your wishes, your background and I can give you even more clarity about the way I work.

I can't offer you a shower, but I'll take care of everything necessary to freshen up after the massage. I therefore expect you to come to the session in good hygiene.

These sessions include conversation, preparation and ritual, massage of 1.5-2h-3h, refreshing and aftertalk.

Sacred Sexuality

Do you also have the desire to live your full potential and to free yourself from emotional blockages so that you can open yourself completely to what life has to offer? This tantric-shamanic massage session is for women and men who long for more energy and joie de vivre, creativity and a deeper connection with themselves and with others.
We work with the healing power of sexual energy and you are invited to open your heart to universal love. This brings you into a higher vibrational field and you make more contact with your soul mission.

We start by releasing your expressive power through movement, breath and voice. This will wake up your body for the session that will follow.
Through the different ways of touch, use of voice and energetic work, I guide you in opening your gates so that you gain access to your cosmic life energy in connection with your earthly fire.

During this journey, feelings of shame and guilt, taboos and limiting beliefs can prevent you from going with the flow. By giving expression to these feelings and letting yourself be carried away in the experience, you can liberate yourself and open yourself to the higher dimensions of light and love. This allows ecstasy and possibly new insights to reveal themselves to you.

When you are ready, this session can be expanded with de-armouring techniques in the pelvic area. Traumas are often hidden in these zones that have their origin both individually and collectively and which cause tension. This hinders our vital sexual flow. By approaching these points with love and attention, you can slowly bring relaxation to this area and heal your past. Sometimes this is accompanied by images and/or insights that can help you with that.
After a de-armouring session you will feel more spacious and free in your pelvic area.
After the integration time, we end with a conversation.

These sessions include conversation, preparation and ritual, massage of 1.5-2h, refreshing and aftertalk.

Sexual Bodywork

With sexual bodywork we work with questions and problems related to your sexuality such as: erection problems, premature ejaculation or difficulties in ejaculation, sex-porn addiction, pain during intercourse, vaginismus, no desire to make love, difficulties with intimate contact, abuse…

Is there a desire to free yourself from shame and taboos?

Do you want to become more free in receiving touch and would you like to be able to express this?

Do you want to learn how to be wonderfully present with yourself and enjoy yourself?

Do you want to learn to explore your own sexuality?

I invite you to connect with your heart and your sex so that you can feel completely at home in your own body.

For whom?

These sexual bodywork sessions are for women and men. I gently invite you to dwell on your sensitive sensations and be open to all the experiences you feel in your body. I will guide you in your process in a safe way and at your pace.

How do we work?

We start with an intake interview to clarify your question.

Based on this, discuss together the plan and the trajectory you want to follow. It is recommended that you commit to at least 3 sessions. We work with touch, massage techniques, de-armouring, self-love, mindful body work, body scan, breath, movement, voice liberation, relaxation techniques, meditation, awareness exercises and the wheel of consent (communication technique).

Healing your inner child: the healing triangle

During this session we work with the lack of experience of attention/warmth/closeness and being supported by your parents and educators.

We make a father-mother-child arrangement and thus create 'the healing triangle'. We do this by placing the good enough father and mother in space and giving you a safe bed in which you can sink completely and feel and express all your emotional sensations.

In this safe space you can investigate and ask what your inner child needs.

We as facilitators are here to give you what you missed in your childhood.

In this way we replace old imprints with new corrective imprints, allowing you to function more freely emotionally, sexually and relationally.

For whom?

• You feel an insatiable desire to be cherished.
• You notice that a love relationship is not obvious to you.
• Making contact is difficult for you.
• You feel victimized.
• You have unprocessed emotions towards your parents.
• You are afraid of an intimate relationship.
• You feel restless or blocked.
• You are too expectant in relationships.
• You have little self-confidence.

What does it bring you?

More inner peace, more confidence, more freedom, more space and comfort in yourself and in your (love) relationships.

How do we work?

We are here with two to guide your inner child in a warm, safe atmosphere. After an introductory conversation and a meditation, you take on the role of a child and we take on the role of a good enough mother and father.

This is how we set up the triangle 'mother-father-child' in a setup. We then make the link to your parents and your previous upbringing climate and we may work with a situation that you indicate as important at the moment.

As facilitators, we follow your rhythm so that you determine the course of the session in complete safety and at your own pace.

We work with positive affirmations, with possible touches and position in the space of mother-father-child. We create a bed in which you can sink completely and allow your vulnerability. All emotions are welcome.

In the setup we go to a corrective emotional experience and then let it integrate into your cell memory. Because of this new programming in your system, early childhood traumas are healed.

The session can last two or three hours and ends when your inner signals indicate it. We provide sufficient space and a final interview to make the transition to 'normal life' again.

I do this session together with my partner Staf Van Pelt.

Tantric love journey for couples and occasional couples

In a tantric love journey we immerse you in a bath of sensual and connecting touches, playful surprising actions, stimulating teasing in combination with communicative tools. Here we work with different tantric methodologies: massage, wheel of consent, inquiry, linking, ritual play, tantric dance and rituals.

This tantric love journey is there for you to fully enjoy, to connect from your heart with your (occasional) partner and to invite you to more fun and depth in your relationship.

Depending on your question, I will guide this trip together with my partner Staf.

How do we get started?

We would like to meet you in advance to coordinate together. In this way we can put together a program according to your wishes and desires. This can happen live, but also via zoom. If you want to make a weekend of it, there are plenty of B§B nearby.

In this conversation we will see when we can schedule this activity.

Just to be clear, we don't do sexual services.

Put together your own group

Do you know people who are also interested in a tantric love journey? Then you have the option to put together a group. This can give extra atmosphere and fun and the price per participant will be cheaper. Tuning is then done via zoom. For more information about this, please contact us.

This activity takes place in a beautiful space in Holsbeek, close to forest and nature.

You bring your own packed lunch.

Make sure you have showered before the workshop. There is a possibility to freshen up afterwards. Unfortunately we cannot offer you a shower.

Relationship coaching

With relationship coaching I would like to guide you on an innovative path to openness, trust, fun and adventure in your relationship.

After all, we often lose the good connection with our partner, you become irritable towards each other, you start to doubt yourself, you have unfulfilled desires or your expectations are high. For example, the judgments are quickly ready, we end up in a back and forth branch and sometimes the fire is already running high.

Perhaps you wish to bring more openness to your relationship or you run into walls in an already open relationship pattern.

Or there is a wish to explore your love and sexuality a little more with each other and you want inspiration for this.

With relationship coaching we offer you a strong tool to open your heart to each other and to remain in communication even in more difficult situations. But even if love is still flowing, a tantric approach in your love game can provide a lot of inspiration and a beautiful connection. It can deepen your relationship, take the grind out of it and open doors to other and new dimensions.

In a preparatory conversation I will discuss with you where the flow of love may be faltering, what you are encountering and which path you wish to take. From a professional tantric perspective I want to guide you through your process and if necessary I can bring my experience in non-conventional relationships into the sessions.

Which tools can we use?

Conversation, communication tools such as self-examination and self-questioning, awareness exercises, drawing up a renewed love contract, wheel of consent, (sexual) bodywork…

Dance coaching

You are welcome with your questions about making contact with your body, feeling and your emotions, letting go, liberating, your passion fire, inner strength, taking space, setting boundaries, self-confidence...

Because words often fall short, a body-oriented approach can provide more clarity in your theme. You are brought into contact with what lives in your body. With movement and dance we look for your essence.

After an introductory talk I will invite you to sink into your body. With specific assignments that develop from your dance, I help you further in your process. In this way you become aware of things that may have been unconscious before. We translate your experience into everyday life. In this way you get concrete tools that help you further and bring you closer to a freer and lighter life.
You are welcome even if you have never danced before.