The tantra story started for me after my divorce in 2015. Divorce is always painful but I am glad that we parted ways amicably and that we still have a good relationship.
The fact is that after my divorce I didn't feel like re-committing immediately. But I did need human contact, connection, physicality… and massage was something I had always loved and I was attracted to anyway, so it was kind of in line with the expectations that I would evolve in that direction.
Together with a friend, who is a massage therapist herself, I went to experience for the first time what a tantra massage entails, with a well-known masseur and therapist in Brussels, for a duo massage. That was the impetus for both of us to delve into it further.
Each massage is preceded by an introductory meeting where you can also indicate your expectations and limits. And that is important because the massage must be a pleasant moment for both of us and then clear agreements are nice so that we can get and stay in the flow.
Tantra, and tantra massage in particular, is open to many interpretations and each practitioner has his own vision and style, gives his own interpretation and puts his own accents. That being said, the massage is in any case aimed at releasing and flowing certain energies, especially the sexual ones, and bringing you to an extraordinary state of well-being. I personally see tantra massage as a sensual, intimate and intuitive journey of discovery, for the recipient but also for the giver, where it is less about technique than about the intention and the attention you put into the touches as a masseur.
The massage takes place in a relaxed setting: a warm and darkened room with appropriate music. With tantra massage, both receiver and giver are normally naked, based on equality, but in principle I stay in comfortable clothing (short & T-shirt) unless you prefer otherwise.
At the start of the massage you lie on your stomach and I cover you with a cloth made of light fabric, a so-called pareo. The massage starts with light touches on the cloth to create a bond of trust. As soon as you have settled down and relaxed, I gently remove the cloth and start the actual massage, at first with light touches and caresses, which then gradually become more emphatic. I then massage the entire back of your body with a warm, natural oil (almond, coconut, sesame, grape seed...) not forgetting a square centimeter. Next comes the front, again from head to toe. The next and last step is the yoni massage, if you have indicated that you wish it during the conversation. After the massage there is time to "land", to freshen up and to talk.
The setting for the kashmiri massage is the same as for the tantra massage, but the massage itself is slightly different. For example, you lie on your side at the start, a bit in a fetal position, and during the massage our bodies are somewhat intertwined. This makes it an even more intimate form of massage, especially since another basic principle is that we keep as much skin contact as possible. That also means that we are both naked here anyway because textiles are a disturbing element.
I do recommend not to start with this form of massage if you have no previous experience, but to opt for the regular tantra massage for the first time.
I consider the massage as a whole that does not fall into the parts in half or full hours and I do not time the massage to the minute. Generally speaking, the tantra massage takes about an hour and a half and the kashmiri massage takes two hours. With the conversation before and afterwards, you should therefore count on about two to two and a half hours.
I ask for a fixed amount of 100 euros for the tantra massage and 120 euros for the kashmiri massage.
I have a full-time job that I do mostly from home, which allows me to organize my working hours myself and I can easily take time off during the day. Practically speaking, the massage takes place at my home during the day. You can also do it in the evening, but preferably at your home or in your hotel room, for example.
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